I rush across the road tripping once over my own clumsiness, frantically searching pockets for change as I go. The driver is less than impressed by losing a few seconds over this wreck of a young woman. I finish my chore with only one layer of mascara, instead of my usual three, and smile to myself as I push the stop button. Blurry eyes, blurrier mind.

So, my sister, Dana, is incredibly talented in the home decorating, photography and crafting arenas.

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