I am always concerned in relationships, when that corner is turned and the fiery lust seems to be easily replaced with later or after. I feel like a young boy who wants his candy in a shopping centre, and rather than screaming for it you grow up, and stop asking but you still want it.

She wore lace, smiled when she re-adjusted her slipping purse strap. If pressed to find one, that thing is focus.

On Tuesday 9 September 2014 I facilitated a discussion for people of color on lateral violence, as part of a workshop series organised by the Women of Colour Collective at University of Melbourne. It was a fairly organic discussion where people brought up a lot of different issues. 8211; different understandings of what lateral violence is. 8211; what causes lateral violence.

Asymp; Leave a comment. For some reason this week has been all about speaking truth for me. Introduced you to one of my favorite poems, I Will Speak Genius to Myself, a work I often revisit to remind me to offer myself positive affirmations should I fail to receive them from others. Take all of your wasted honor.

The wanderings of a suburban TransBear. This cover image, by Andrew Bott was the photo for my 101 style workshop, Introduction to BDSM for queers. It always starts with an ideas, during a conversation, or talking about someone else, that scares me. Things that get other people off, things seen in movies etc.

Sex Is Not The Enemy. Ms Naughty Porn for Women.